Abandoned at Birth: An Adoption Story of Loss, Identity, and Finding Family

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Many people believe that love is enough to heal the wounds of adoption, but Sherlund’s story challenges this notion. While adoptive families provide love and security, there remains a primal connection to one’s biological roots that, if severed without closure, can lead to lifelong struggles with identity and belonging.

Only ten U.S. states grant adoptees full access to their original birth records, leaving millions in the dark about their origins. This lack of transparency forces many adoptees to embark on painful searches, often uncovering unexpected truths. In Sherlund’s case, the adoption agency provided a false narrative about her biological parents—one of many obstacles she faced on her quest for answers.

The Hidden Struggles of Adoption

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No matter how much you love your adopted child or have been loved as an adoptee, this interview will reveal your emotions at the core and answer those deep questions you may have. It is an unflinching examination of the grief and trauma caused by this primal separation and the dogged determination it takes to face the forces of opposition—both internal and external—to finally achieve answers. 

Finding Family: A Story Of Resilience

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For much of Janet Sherlund’s life, she felt a deep, unshakable void. Like many adoptees, she longed to know her origins, believing that finding her birth mother would heal the grief she carried. But born in an era before DNA testing and without any available records, she was left to navigate a life filled with unanswered questions.

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In her memoir, Abandoned at Birth: Searching for the Arms That Once Held Me, Sherlund shares a raw and emotional adoption story, illuminating the pain of separation and the determination it takes to uncover the truth. Her journey is not just about finding family—it’s about reclaiming her identity and understanding the profound impact of adoption on an individual’s sense of self.

Through twists, turns, and surprising connections, Sherlund’s journey is a testament to the resilience of adoptees who fight for the right to know their origins. Her memoir is more than a personal story—it’s an urgent call for open adoption records, greater awareness of adoption trauma, and a deeper understanding of what it takes to heal.

An Adoption Story Of Finding Identity

Whether you are an adoptee, an adoptive parent, or someone who knows an adoptee, Abandoned at Birth will challenge the way you view adoption. It sheds light on the silent grief many adoptees carry and the importance of acknowledging that loss.

Janet Sherlund’s memoir is not just an adoption story—it is a powerful exploration of identity, loss, and the unbreakable human spirit. If you’ve ever wondered what it feels like to grow up without knowing where you came from, this book is a must-read.

Get your copy of Abandoned at Birth: Searching for the Arms That Once Held Me and uncover a story of truth, resilience, and the search for belonging.


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