How To Survive Trauma

On August 23, 1987, 26-year-old Selonia Reed was found dead in the parking lot of a gas station in Hammond, Louisiana. Nearly forty years after her death, her husband, Reginald Reed, was sentenced to life in prison on January 30, 2023, for her murder.
But this story is much deeper than a tragic headline.
Reginald L. Reed Jr., Selonia’s son, has faced an unthinkable series of events. In his memoir, The Day My Mother Never Came Home, Reggie opens up about the trauma of losing his mother, the shocking indictment and trial of his father, and the emotional toll these experiences took on his life. Through his journey, he shares lessons about resilience, healing, and the surprising power of laughter in the face of trauma.
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The Journey Of A Trauma Survivor

Reggie was just a young boy when his mother was murdered. For years, the case remained unsolved, casting a shadow over his life. When his father was eventually indicted and later convicted, it opened old wounds and forced Reggie to confront his past head-on.
In his book, Reggie shares how personal struggles and the feeling of helplessness almost consumed him. He writes about moments of overwhelming despair, his failures, and the psychological weight of living through such unimaginable pain.

Despite these challenges, Reggie found ways to survive and even thrive. He emphasizes that it’s normal to feel hopeless at times and that seeking help or leaning on others is not a sign of weakness but of strength. His journey serves as a reminder that resilience can come from the most unexpected places—even humor.
A Memoir That's More Than "True Crime"
The Day My Mother Never Came Home is not just a true crime story. It’s a deeply personal account of trauma, resilience, and hope. Reggie’s vulnerability and determination to heal make this book a powerful read for anyone seeking inspiration in their own journey.
As featured in Newsweek and A&E's Cold Case Files, this book has touched countless readers, earning accolades like:
- A Publishers Weekly Memoir and Autobiography Spotlight Read
- A Goodreads "Great Reads About Mental Health" Top 50
- "More than a memoir. A life-changing masterpiece of one man’s ability to face multiple life traumas head-on." — Reader Paula
Reclaim Your Hope

Reggie invites readers into his journey of healing and justice. With every page, he delves into the psychological impact of his trauma while offering a powerful message of hope. His story shows that even in the darkest moments, there is light to be found.
If you’re looking for a book that will captivate you and leave you reflecting on the strength of the human spirit, The Day My Mother Never Came Home is a must-read.